I believe that the the poem was neither a marriage proposal nor a a sexual proposition. I can understand why it can be seen this way. The poem startsout with "cheap hotels" and old dirty restaurants, but nearing the end of the poem it leans toward in-decision. He might be telling the reader that his living conditions and his physical apearance is causing him to stay quiet about his love. Prufrock is stating his low self-esteem because of loves that he has had in the past. Fro example " Do I dare" is repeated and clearly shows hesitation from his part because of his past.
Responce to Blog Prompt #2
Prufrock is simply afraid forcing something to happen. He may believe in destiny, that if things don't happen they weren't meant to be. Hollis says that Prufrock does not act on his desires because of his self doubt. This is true because Prufrock has a low self esteem. In the poem Prufrock is described an older man who is begining to bald. Knowing that his physical appearence won't help him out, Prufrock decides not to act. He decides not to "disturb the universe". Waldoff's essay argues that Prufrock is not forcing the issue because of his experiances with rejection.